Fr. Aris Miranda, MI
Ps 103:1-4,8,10,12-13
1 Sam 26:2, 7-9,12-13, 22-23
1Cor 15:45-49
Luke 6:27-38
In today’s Sunday gospel, Jesus invites us to reflect on the famous Golden Rule of life – “Treat others as you wish them to treat you.” Though Jesus mentioned this Rule in the gospels, he attributed a new sense to this Rule, a new rule which goes beyond seeking only of one’s inner peace and serenity.
The Golden Rule evolves from history, and it is being interpreted from the different life’s situation.
In the Book of Exodus, the People of Israel were given “an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth” as an ethical principle. Today we regard this system of proportional punishment as rather severe. In a more primitive society, it was regarded as permissible to take revenge often quite disproportionate to the original injury suffered. This led to vendettas lasting for generations, something which was highly destructive to society at large. The principle of “an eye for an eye …” was therefore brought in, to introduce some form of equity into the situation and so stop people from aggravating the grievance and effectively preventing unnecessary vendettas.
From this position, society gradually progressed to a system of monetary compensation for injuries. Even today society generally works along the same lines with fines imposed for minor injuries and imprisonment for more serious cases. The worst that we have ever experienced is the escalating cases of extrajudicial killings and the culture of impunity perpetrated against innocents or victims of poverty in case of the present war on drugs.
But those who choose the spiritual path, they realise that this is an insufficient basis on which to live a righteous life and so there was a gradual progression to the Golden Rule. This provides a much more positive principle on which to base one’s life. It isn’t based on reacting to injuries but sets out to build a positive society. It is an altruistic approach to life and promotes the general well-being of everyone we come into contact with.
Other faiths interpret this Rule in different ways. From Islam: “No one can be a believer unless he loves his brother as himself.” From Buddhism: “There are five ways in which a true leader must treat his friends and dependents – with generosity, courtesy, goodwill, giving to them what they expect and being true to his word.” From Taoism: “Consider the success of your neighbor as your own, and also his misfortune as if it were your own.” In Jesus teaching, he succeeded in putting into words the deepest and most universal desires of humankind, the desire for fraternity, born of the will to wish others well completely, selflessly, without trying to draw any benefit, merit or reward. It is in a sincere fraternity, well-lived that the face of God is revealed.
Jesus includes the Golden Rule in his teaching, but he goes one step further and takes his disciples far beyond the Golden Rule with new teaching which is to love even our enemies. Yes, the Golden Rule is certainly part of loving your enemy, but there is much more to it such as “turning the other cheek,” “giving your tunic as well as your cloak,” “lending without hope of return” and so on.
The Golden Rule “treat others as you would like them to treat you” is based on what you would want others to do to you whereas “love your enemies” is based on the way God deals with us as exemplified in the life of Jesus himself. This is best summarised in these words: “Be compassionate as your heavenly Father is compassionate.” Our task as disciples of Christ is to act in the same way as God acts which is to be compassionate to everyone even to our enemies.
The New Golden Rule of Jesus
If a Christian embodies the gospel he questions the established order of the society, then it is inevitable that he will be persecuted as it happened to the human rights activists and pro-people development advocates. How should we behave then when are persecuted, marginalized, suffered injustices and may even lose our lives?
Often, our instinct dictates to react, to revenge even using violence. What do you think would Jesus say to you?
Jesus said to his disciples “to you who hear I say love your enemies; do good to those who hate you; bless those who curse you; pray for those who mistreat you. To the person who strikes you on one cheek, offer the other one as well, and from the person who takes your cloak, do not withhold even your tunic. Give to everyone who asks of you, and from the one who takes what is yours do not demand it back.”
Jesus presents four imperatives. The first imperative: love your enemies. Have you ever wondered how you could be friends with those who have done wrong against you? Jesus is not asking you to befriend them but to love them. Love is not a feeling but a gratuitous act of loving (Gk. agapan). It does not originate from human nature but in the life that our Father has given to us because He is himself, love. Agapan is an availability to do good unconditionally even to an enemy who did serious evil deeds against you. It means readiness to respond to the request for help even from an enemy. The enemy is expressing his/her needs despite the gravity of the wrongdoing he has done to you.
The second imperative: do good to those who hate you. Hate is not alien to our sensitivities. However, it will become dangerous when it turns into hatred. Hatred is not simply an antipathy but a deep-seated feeling of aversion. The one who hates wants to destroy the other. Here, Jesus demands his disciples to take all opportunities to help that person (enemy) and make him happy by doing good and doing good means making a firm decision to help that person to grow. By all means, a disciple of Christ cannot do anything but love alone.
The third imperative: bless those who curse you. Cursing means wanting the death of the other while blessing means to wish life. We bless God when we recognize that all of life comes from him and God blesses us by giving his life. When you bless a person it means you want him to live and not just to survive but the fullness of life. It is a recognition that no one has the right to take the life of others regardless of the gravity of his/her evil doings.
The fourth imperative: pray for those who mistreat you. Practicing the first three imperatives is difficult, and thus prayer is needed. Only an authentic prayer and not a mere repetition of formulas which will make you in tune with the thought of God, to see and feel how God sees the one who hates you. God hates bad things. He does, but above all he loves. When we are before the Lord, we cannot lie to Him, and so we can ask him to fill with his blessings the one who did wrong to you.
Jesus further explains this proposal for a new life with four practical examples using paradoxical images. First, to the person who strikes you on one cheek, offer the other one as well.” Jesus wants us to be moved by the Spirit of the divine life. This means you must not respond with violence when you experienced aggression in your life. A Christian cannot react except with love. If you cannot change the situation, don’t react with violence. Be calm and pray for the virtue of patience.
Second, “from the person who takes your cloak, do not withhold even your tunic.” If you find someone who took your cloak because he is dying of cold, you must give him a tunic even if you feel cold. Do not look for excuses; give to everyone who asks of you. Helping is done without discretion even if it creates an unpleasant situation. If you can help your brother, you must help him no matter what. However, let us be vigilant. There is a saying which goes “keep the alms in your in your sweaty hands until you know who is best to receive it.” Think well before giving alms and know how your help will be used.
The third example relates to economic justice – “from the one who takes what is yours do not demand it back.” Jesus is not saying that you should remain passive; resign to yourself. A Christian is not foolish. You are not to behave in the same way as the other behaves on you. Moreover, do not tolerate injustice. Love does not mean silence in front of injustices. A Christian must be committed to ending injustices and abuse of power, but he does it according to the ways of the gospel.
Jesus proposes a new golden rule especially in the situation that you are not sure what to do. “For if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do the same. If you lend money to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, and get back the same amount.”
Jesus introduces the theme of the gratuity of Christian love. It is the availability to do good for free without expecting anything in return. It transforms a person into a noble one; into a true disciple of Christ because from him, or she comes the light that characterizes the noble person who is Jesus of Nazareth. When Jesus says you must be light of the world, it means you must let your lives be the light to others.
What will be then your reward of loving your enemies? Loving an enemy is a privileged situation where it is possible to show the gratuitousness of love. In this way, you will become a child of the Most High who is generous even to the ungrateful and the wicked. God manifests his very identity as God by loving especially those who are impossible to love with. One who commits evil is a person but weak and thus can be strengthened and corrected.
Jesus concludes with an exhortation to the Christian community. “Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.” In the Old Testament, God is known as merciful (rahem). Rahem which refers to a mother’s womb (uterus). God presents his love as visceral as motherly. It does not say the heart of God; it says the uterus. All of us have hearts but not the uterus which is only for women. This is how God demonstrates his unconditional love for each one of us.
God hates evil more than any other because evil is done to his children, but he loves each person. However, he is capable of distinguishing between the evil deed and the doer, the person. He judges the act but not the person. When you judge a person, it means you tie that person to his evil deeds. When you judge his act, then you untie that act from him and thus frees him from his evil doings. This is what forgiveness is all about. It means to untie the rope hanging around his neck.
To live happily, we must untie ourselves from the mistakes we have made. We do not deny them, but we look at them serenely knowing that God does not tie us to our mistakes.